Sanele Masilela got
hitched to Helen Shabangu, who is already married
The pair exchanged rings
and kissed in front of 100 guests
But his family insists it was just a ritual to appease
ancestral spirits
An
eight-year-old schoolboy has married a 61-year-old woman because the ghost of
his dead ancestor told him to.
Sanele Masilela
tied the knot with Helen Shabangu, who is already married and a mother-of-five.
The boy, from
Tshwane, South Africa, said he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and
his family, fearing divine retribution, forked out for a wedding.
They paid £500
for the bride and a further £1,000 for the big day, which was organised in just
two months.
Dressed in a
bow tie and tiny silver suit, little Sanele, the youngest of five children,
exchanged rings in front of 100 guests and even puckered up for a kiss.
It's already
shocked the community but the family has defended the ceremony, saying it was
just a ritual and not legally binding.
Sanele's
46-year-old mum, Patience Masilela said: 'This is the first time this has
happened in the family.
'Sanele is
named after his grandfather, who was never had a white wedding before he died
so asked Sanele to get married. He chose Helen because he loves her.
'By doing this
we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn't done what my son had asked then
something bad would have happened in the family.
'I didn't have
a problem with it because I know it's what the ancestors wanted and it would
make them happy.'
The widow, who
works at a recycling centre, added: 'I would say that this is not wrong.
'Sanele was
fine and he was happy about the ceremony and it was what he wanted. He was
happy to get married and very excited.'
Sanele and his
bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together.
Both have gone back to their normal lives.
Sanele today
said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was
older.
He added: 'I
told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to.
'I'm happy that
I married Helen - but I will go to school and study hard.
'When I'm older
I will marry a lady my own age.'
Despite being
old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged between
37 and 27, was happy with the arrangement.
Helen, who also
works at a recycling centre, said: 'I'm married and have five kids of my own,
but I know that this is what the ancestors wanted - and now they are happy.
'It is a
ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married one
day.'
Her husband of
30 years, Alfred, 65, said: 'My kids and I are happy.
'We don't have
problems with it but some of the community members were shocked.'
Source: Mail online
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